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Affairs PART 1 – Assumptions Versus Facts

Some of the conventional wisdom about what causes affairs and how to repair relationships are assumptions or myths. Some of the statistical facts in regards to infidelity are surprising and thought-provoking. While some of the myths lead to judgments and are very hurtful for the affected couple, the facts help us to be compassionate with ourselves and others in a situation of betrayal. Read More about “Affairs PART 1 – Assumptions Versus Facts”…

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5 Losing Strategies in Relationships

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We all have protective strategies which keep us from feeling vulnerable. Unfortunately, these dynamics cause damage to a relationship. Terry Real names five losing strategies in relationships. The first step of changing destructive interactions is to understand your partner’s protective mechanisms but more importantly what your own defaults are.

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Our Heart at Peace Vs our Heart at War

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Conflicts happen all over the world and start with our own personal disharmonies and conflicts in our individual relationships. What exactly causes the start or the escalation of a conflict? It is not so much the actions we take that invite war, but the way we are while taking them. The same action can be performed from a heart at peace or a heart at war. What determines which way we interact with others?

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