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Affairs PART 1 – Assumptions Versus Facts

Some of the conventional wisdom about what causes affairs and how to repair relationships are assumptions or myths. Some of the statistical facts in regards to infidelity are surprising and thought-provoking. While some of the myths lead to judgments and are very hurtful for the affected couple, the facts help us to be compassionate with ourselves and others in a situation of betrayal. Read More about “Affairs PART 1 – Assumptions Versus Facts”…

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Are You the Magnet You Want to Be? – New Workshop in 2025

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When there are blocks and things are not going smoothly in one or more areas of our lives, it is due to energetic distortions. Like magnets, we draw in specific experiences through our subconscious beliefs, thoughts, actions, or non-action. This does not mean we are to “blame” for what shows up. Rather, it empowers us to make energetic shifts, change our beliefs and thoughts and draw in something different. It allows us to heal old wounds and create different relationships with others.

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Why We Judge Our Parents

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What is going on when our children seem judgmental of some of the things we do? As parents, we act as mirrors to them, just as they are reflections for us. It is uncomfortable to be at the receiving end of their projections but we need to keep in mind that this is not about us, as much as it feels that way, but it is about what our children have learned to disown; and we may even have taught them to disown that particular trait or energy.

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Once Upon a Time There Was An Evil Queen

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When we embrace our shadows, we work towards a “happily ever after” in all our relationships. Integrating our shadows moves us into wholeness, into unconditional love of ourselves. As we release our judgments and projections, we develop a natural compassion towards others. It gives us and them permission to be our authentic selves.

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The Perfect Mother

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Nobody and nothing can prevent us from truly loving ourselves. It is our job to love ourselves; nobody can do it for us! No amount of love from the outside can penetrate through if we do not take the cape of self-judgment, self-loathing or even self-hatred off.

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Every Relationship is a Mirror

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Every relationship in our life is a reflection of the relationship we have with ourselves. When we take a closer look, we realize that everybody is a mirror in some way. One of my favourite philosophers when I was studying philosophy in school was Immanuel Kant. I loved his fabulously clear and simple Categorical Imperative,…

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Responsibility for Co-Creating ALL Our Experiences

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Mother’s Day—like Christmas—seems to be one of those days which are heavy with expectations and emotions. When asking my clients how their mother’s day weekend unfolded, it didn’t surprise me all that much that a few people experienced disappointment when their own limiting beliefs surfaced. Those beliefs range from “I am not appreciated” to “I…

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