What does your partner need most when he or she comes to you with a stressful situation? Read More about “The Stress Reducing Conversation”…
Some of the conventional wisdom about what causes affairs and how to repair relationships are assumptions or myths. Some of the statistical facts in regards to infidelity are surprising and thought-provoking. While some of the myths lead to judgments and are very hurtful for the affected couple, the facts help us to be compassionate with ourselves and others in a situation of betrayal. Read More about “Affairs PART 1 – Assumptions Versus Facts”…
PSYCH-K® and Shadow Energetics are energy psychology techniques which allow us to effectively shift our beliefs at a subconscious level. Shadow Energetics also works with our emotions and shadow traits to become whole and more heart centred by being able to accept ourselves and others unconditionally. Read More about “What is PSYCH-K® and Shadow Energetics©?”…
What myths have we been conditioned to believe about love and relationships? Read More about “10 Relationship Myths We Are Conditioned to Believe”…
One in five Canadians has a mood or anxiety disorder. Anxiety is especially on the rise among children and teens. What can we do to cope with uncertainty and lessen anxiety? Read More about “Hello, Old Pal Anxiety!”…
While a woman consciously wants a baby, her subconscious might be preventing her from getting pregnant. Studies indicate that psychological and emotional blocks are the root of many infertility issues. What issues, fears, beliefs and emotions can prevent conception? Read More about “Infertility – Issues, Fears and Emotions That Prevent Conception”…
Why does conflict often seem to escalate quickly? When we feel blamed by our partner or overwhelmed with strong negative emotions, we make a significant mistake in those moments.
Here is the good news: You can shift your conflict interactions quickly by changing this one thing!
Conflict is not just unavoidable but also necessary to work through issues. In our family of origin, we learn beliefs about conflicts and fighting and how to express our emotions. Conflict experiences with our family and previous relationships shape our “fighting style” or “conflict style.” Learn about three “healthy” and two “unhealthy” conflict styles that Drs John and Julie Gottman distinguish and determine your and your partner’s styles.
Having conflicts or disagreements does not indicate that a relationship is in trouble. What is essential is to address disagreements consciously and communicate well with each other when we have a dispute. Here are 8 agreements to set up with your partner regarding a fair fight.