Do you find yourself in conflicts with somebody close to you, responding from fight or flight? What is happening in those interactions and how do we get out of them?
Tag: judgments
Beyond the Labels of Right and Wrong
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I’ll meet you there. – Rumi This frequently quoted poem brings up an interesting question: Can we ever truly know the motivations others had when they did something or didn’t do something? Can we ever claim they are wrong and we are right? We…
How Children Carry Our Disowned Shadow Parts
Children are wonderful mirrors for us. How do your children annoy you? How do they get you to lose your composure? One of my daughters could make me raving mad by doing things last-minute. That took all sorts of forms over the years and for the longest time, I claimed to be the exact opposite,…