Our Vibrational Invitation

“The choices that others make cannot negatively impact your experience unless you include them in your experience through your attention to them. Things come to you only through your Vibrational invitation—and they remain only by your continuing attention to them.”


I posted this quote on Facebook just a week ago. It received quite a few likes. The best compliment, however, was that a friend of mine tells me her husband thought the quote was about him. I had to laugh. I assured her that her husband was the last person on my mind when I posted the quote. I have no idea what is going on in his life at the moment, but I am flattered that the post made him stop and re-think something that is relevant for him.

So, who did I have in mind with this quote then? Simply myself. I needed a reminder of what I know to be true but sometimes forget myself. In fact, a lot of what I post on facebook or blog about is a reminder for myself and at the same time for many unknown other people. My writing is not meant for one particular person. However, if you feel you needed to hear something that was mentioned in one of my posts, I am grateful that it had meaning to you.

We are all going through similar challenges at times. When I post about parenting, or relationships, or our shadow, or the law of attraction, it might be something I have learned at one point but it also just as often is a reminder for myself to readjust my course in life slightly, or to change direction in a particular area. Living life with the goal to be the best self you can be, is an ongoing process of awareness of how we are showing up versus who we are capable of being.

The Abraham quote above is a beautiful reminder for all of us that what we focus on grows and persists. What we don’t allow into our experience cannot affect us.


If you have relatives or friends who make choices you would not want to make, you can let that aggravate you and sit in judgment over them, or you can remember that it is not up to you to change other people. Our Universe is based upon freedom: freedom for everyone to choose what they give their attention to, and therefore what they choose to experience. You have the same freedom to choose your values and make your own decisions for your own life.

If you have an angry or resentful family member, you can focus on what he or she has said or done and allow that to affect the peace in your family, or you can choose to not engage. Focus on the loving energy instead which surrounds you and cannot be penetrated by anger, jealousy, or the desire to hurt others—unless you allow it to be.

If you feel the world is not fair and others got what you should have gotten you can focus on your lack, or remember that when others achieve what they desire, they in no way deprive you of your desires. There is enough prosperity, enough health and enough love for everybody to live in abundance.

Wishing you all a



Angelika; 905-286-9466; greendoorrelaxation@yahoo.ca

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Sometimes I don’t write a blog for weeks. A fleeting thought might cross my mind, “I haven’t blogged in a long time. I should… Ah, I will make time for that later…” And in the end, blogging does not happen. Then, suddenly something catches my interest and I write a new blog. Now I have shifted my attention. The next day I might notice something else that is “of the stuff” for a blog, and I write about that as well. This usually goes on for a while, until I allow life to take over again.

What has happened when we allow something else to take over? Has it really “taken over” as if we had nothing to do with it? Admittedly, sometimes “fires need to be put out”. Something occurs that requires immediate attention. However, so much more often we just think something else is more important, or we allow our focus to wander.

The reason for desires, goals…for finding those decisions or points of focus, is because they are the life-giving things of the Universe. Without objects of attention, or objects of desire, Life Force does not come through any of us. —Abraham

In co-creating our reality, in manifesting into this physical form what we truly want to see and engage in, we need to watch our focus closely. The clear intention and focus create a certain effect in your life.

The Universe does not care when you say “I should” or “It would be good for me if…” or “I would like…” It only responds to vibration. Whether you focus on what you don’t want, or whether you focus on what you do want, you will attract more of that same energy. The Universe does not know or care whether the vibration that you’re offering is in response to something you are living right now, and observing, or in response to something you are imagining. In either case, the Universe accepts it as your point of attraction and matches it. —Abraham

If there is drama going on around us and we choose to focus on or even engage in it in some form, we have just guaranteed that we will be tied up in that drama for a longer while. We will be experiencing what we don’t want, until we clearly shift our focus and intention again.

So here is to clear focus and to more blogs this month, as I am approaching my 100th blog…

What are your goals? Weight Loss? Healthier Relationships? Creativity? Ready to shift your focus and strive for your goals?