We all have to make decisions in life; some of the bigger ones are relationship-related (moving in/out, marriage, having children, separation, divorce), and others might be job-related. When I assist clients to become clearer on the choices they are faced with, we examine their beliefs that prevent them from making the most beneficial decision. Fears and limiting beliefs are transformed in the coaching session into more supportive beliefs.
Often I find that a big stumbling block for clients is the fear of making a “wrong decision” or a “mistake.” That paralyzing idea in itself is the problem! There are no right or wrong decisions. We all make choices all the time; some originate from love, others come from fear or a feeling of lack, some come from spiritual awareness and clarity, and others more from Ego and limiting beliefs.
We often have this idea of a heavy responsibility to “get it right” and choices being “big ones” when really most choices in life are not life or death decisions but can be undone if they are not what we wanted.
As a result of those thoughts, words, or actions, we draw the same quality of energy back in, that we have made our choice from. This manifests as consequences in our life. However, there are no mistakes. Whatever shows up is an opportunity to learn more about ourselves and to grow personally and spiritually.
We are all individualizations of the one spirit. “Individuality means real individualized being and real personified self-choice” (Ernest Holmes, Science of Mind, 73). Without our freedom of choice, we would not have the learning experiences that we do.
At any given moment, it is better to make a choice when you are at a crossroad, than to sit on the fence, afraid to make a mistake. In a way, sitting on the fence, not deciding between choices one and two, is a third choice. It’s the choice not to take responsibility but to let others make a choice for you.
Surrendering to what is unfolding and being open to our own innate wisdom takes away fear. Know that there are no wrong choices. Spirit primarily wants you to have an experience and to learn from that experience.
“There are no mistakes; none have ever been made, and none ever will be made.” (Ernest Homes, Science of Mind, 255)
I am grateful for all my choices, the ones that originated from a higher consciousness and those that originated from a place of “need” and feeling separated from Source. Those so-called “bad decisions” have often taught me more than a “right” decision ever could.
What helps us to make more beneficial decisions is being aware of our soul’s purpose. Part of the counselling I offer is life-purpose coaching. Once we have a clearer understanding of that purpose, making conscious choices from a place of love and trust is easier.
For a guided life purpose journey or belief change work, contact me
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