Are you struggling with your relationship with a particular family member, perhaps with a parent, sibling or child?
Is your marriage or partnership not harmonious or truly loving?
Are you single and do you want to attract a romantic relationship into your life?
Are you getting separated or divorced, and do you want the transition to be as positive as possible?
If I had a magic potion and could give you the relationships you want, what would that look like?
Guess what! YOU have that magic potion yourself. You can create relationships that unfold with ease, joy, and grace. Your relationships can be filled with love, harmony, peace, happiness, and acceptance. Even your relationship with an ex-partner can be cooperative and friendly.
All you have to do is mix your magic potion in the right way; the basic ingredients are working on your own beliefs, thoughts and feelings, and embodying loving kindness, forgiveness and acceptance.
We can never change another person but we can change ourselves. As you change your perception of the relationship you have to another person—as you shift how you feel about him/her and what he/she did—your entire experience changes.
The people we love are usually the best mirrors for us. They bring to our awareness issues we need to work on within ourselves. We can then shift out of judgment and into acceptance. As we confront and befriend the shadows they are showing us in our own being, we no longer get triggered by those loved ones.
Behind every experience there are beliefs and expectations.
If I judge a family member or partner, the relationship will lack mutual acceptance, appreciation and love. The change begins with me changing my judgments and feelings.
If I believe that I am not lucky with romantic relationships, “not being lucky” will be exactly the experience I have. The change starts with moving into a new expectation.
If I view my ex-partner as an enemy, the relationship will be one of disharmony. Change can happen when I am willing to let go of the past and expect the best now and in the future.