Design Your Life

A beautiful and brilliant girlfriend said to me a couple of days ago, “I design my life the way I love it”. I couldn’t help but think how this is the perfect motto for all of us.

What kind of a life are you designing, creating and manifesting for yourself?

What type of energy do you surround yourself with? Is your environment, your home, your office the way you want it? What are the people around you like? Did you know that the five people we associate with most affect our energy immensely? Often we become like them and they become like us.

If money or other limitations where no issue, what would the life you really want to have feel like?

You are the creator of your experience. You are the director of the movie called “My Life” while you at the same time get to act in it. There is no reason to suffer through your life. Pain is a part of life, but suffering is optional. Painful experiences are learning experiences. Suffering for years afterwards is a choice. At any given point in time, you can decide to change your beliefs, thoughts and feelings and have another experience right here, right now. Release and let go. The past is not a precedent for the present, or the future.

In the case of my girlfriend, who has had painful experiences in the past like all of us, the choice to design her life extends to her home, her exterior—she has a fabulous sense of style—and her inner world. She takes care of herself and seeks out relationships that are nurturing, stimulating and supportive. She asks herself what her needs are and makes sure she fulfills them. As a result, she is balanced and happy with herself. She is a joy to be around.

You can design your life as well. All it takes is to decide what you want to change, examine from which beliefs you have created what has shown up in your life so far and then change those beliefs on a subconscious level.


For coaching and belief change work with PSYCH-K® and/or hypnosis contact Angelika